Marry Me tofu pasta
I had to try this recipe that’s supposedly so good it gets the cook a marriage proposal! And it really was tasty — but it turned out super spicy. Next time I might use less chili flakes (I used 1 tsp this time). It was too spicy for the kids, but we adults really liked it! ⏱️ Active cooking time: 30 minutes.


Servings: 4 portions
Ingredients:
1 block of tofu (e.g., Jalotofu 270g)
Salt and pepper to taste
2 tbsp olive oil
2 tbsp butter
1 small onion, finely chopped
4 garlic cloves, crushed
3 tbsp tomato paste
2 tbsp gochujang chili paste
(Optional: ¼ dl white wine)
2.5 dl vegetable broth
2 dl cooking cream (the fattier, the better)
⅓–½ dl oil-packed sun-dried tomatoes, finely chopped
1 tbsp chili flakes
1 tsp oregano
Zest of 1 lemon + 1 tbsp lemon juice
5 fresh basil leaves, thinly sliced
340–400g pasta (e.g., penne, fusilli, or rigatoni)
½ dl reserved pasta water
70g grated Parmesan cheese
Instructions:
Prep the tofu:
Pat the tofu dry and cut it into four slices. Season both sides with olive oil, salt, and pepper.Cook the tofu:
Place tofu in a pan over medium heat. Cook until golden brown on both sides (about 10–15 minutes), then remove from the pan.Start the sauce:
In another pan, heat the olive oil and butter. Sauté the onion and garlic for a few minutes until translucent.Add tomato & chili paste:
Stir in the tomato paste and gochujang. Cook for a few minutes until the mixture turns a deep red color.Deglaze & simmer:
Pour in the white wine and simmer until the alcohol has evaporated. Then add the vegetable broth.Creamy base:
Bring to a boil, then add the cream. Mix in the sun-dried tomatoes, chili flakes, oregano, lemon zest and juice, and basil. Add the tofu back into the sauce.Finish the sauce:
Once the sauce has thickened, season with salt and pepper. Reduce heat to low.Cook the pasta:
Meanwhile, cook the pasta in salted water until al dente.Assemble:
Remove the tofu from the sauce and set aside on plates. Add the drained pasta to the sauce. Stir in a splash of the reserved pasta water if needed.Serve:
Mix in the grated Parmesan. Once the sauce coats the pasta, serve it with the tofu on top — and enjoy!