Marry Me tofu pasta

I had to try this recipe that’s supposedly so good it gets the cook a marriage proposal! And it really was tasty — but it turned out super spicy. Next time I might use less chili flakes (I used 1 tsp this time). It was too spicy for the kids, but we adults really liked it! ⏱️ Active cooking time: 30 minutes.

Servings: 4 portions
Ingredients:
  • 1 block of tofu (e.g., Jalotofu 270g)
  • Salt and pepper to taste

  • 2 tbsp olive oil

  • 2 tbsp butter

  • 1 small onion, finely chopped

  • 4 garlic cloves, crushed

  • 3 tbsp tomato paste

  • 2 tbsp gochujang chili paste

  • (Optional: ¼ dl white wine)

  • 2.5 dl vegetable broth

  • 2 dl cooking cream (the fattier, the better)

  • ⅓–½ dl oil-packed sun-dried tomatoes, finely chopped

  • 1 tbsp chili flakes

  • 1 tsp oregano

  • Zest of 1 lemon + 1 tbsp lemon juice

  • 5 fresh basil leaves, thinly sliced

  • 340–400g pasta (e.g., penne, fusilli, or rigatoni)

  • ½ dl reserved pasta water

  • 70g grated Parmesan cheese

Instructions:
  1. Prep the tofu:
    Pat the tofu dry and cut it into four slices. Season both sides with olive oil, salt, and pepper.

  2. Cook the tofu:
    Place tofu in a pan over medium heat. Cook until golden brown on both sides (about 10–15 minutes), then remove from the pan.

  3. Start the sauce:
    In another pan, heat the olive oil and butter. Sauté the onion and garlic for a few minutes until translucent.

  4. Add tomato & chili paste:
    Stir in the tomato paste and gochujang. Cook for a few minutes until the mixture turns a deep red color.

  5. Deglaze & simmer:
    Pour in the white wine and simmer until the alcohol has evaporated. Then add the vegetable broth.

  6. Creamy base:
    Bring to a boil, then add the cream. Mix in the sun-dried tomatoes, chili flakes, oregano, lemon zest and juice, and basil. Add the tofu back into the sauce.

  7. Finish the sauce:
    Once the sauce has thickened, season with salt and pepper. Reduce heat to low.

  8. Cook the pasta:
    Meanwhile, cook the pasta in salted water until al dente.

  9. Assemble:
    Remove the tofu from the sauce and set aside on plates. Add the drained pasta to the sauce. Stir in a splash of the reserved pasta water if needed.

  10. Serve:
    Mix in the grated Parmesan. Once the sauce coats the pasta, serve it with the tofu on top — and enjoy!